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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    Gayle Harden from Oakridge · 2h ago

    Do you realize that there are several detectives working with me in the GPD that have told me they think you are a "very dangerous, mentally unstable person", "skirting the laws" and have used the words "batshit crazy" when describing you on several occasions? They are collecting police and incident reports on you and your family in the hopes of convicting you of a crime.

    Animal services called your reports bogus while speaking to me over the phone. AS and GPD have shared information about you on the dog issue......

    Had to file 2 police reports in less than a week.....
    I attached that as part of an open records request. I asked for any reports filed, the names of detectives and lots more. Here is what I got:

    Open Records Request Harden Docs.pdf

    All lies. There were zero (0) police reports filed. And, the front desk officer and 911 operators are not detectives or investigators. Gayle Harden could only have spoken with a detective if they had a formal report filed that they felt had the merit that would warrant in investigation. The detectives are then assigned the case and talk to people as part of their investigation. Projection......

    Sigmund Freud – Psychological Projection

    Posted on April 22, 2010 by Ruth White
    “Projecting our problems onto other people”

    According to the theories of Sigmund Freud, psychological projection is a psychological defense mechanism whereby one “projects” one’s own undesirable thoughts, motivations, desires, feelings, and so on onto someone else (usually another person, but psychological projection onto animals and inanimate objects also occurs). The principle of projection is well-established in psychology.......

    It is “the operation of expelling feelings or wishes the individual finds wholly unacceptable – too shameful, too obscene, too dangerous – by attributing them to another”.


    Projection concerns externalizing the issues that we need to deal with ourselves. Usually we project onto others issues and problems that we need to address within ourselves, or are unable to manage properly. Projection is irresponsible behavior as we dump our problem onto somebody else. We justify these projections by blaming someone or something outside for the emotions we do not want to feel. We project our disappointments and problems onto other people, it is somehow their fault, we become a blamer. Ultimately it is the person who projects that loses, as they never really sort out their own problems......

    Also, jealousy and resentment of others good fortune is a form of projection, “Aren’t they lucky, it never happens to us (me).”

    Urban Dictionary:
    Projection
    Projection (Psychological)

    1) An unconscious self-defence mechanism characterised by a person unconsciously attributing their own issues onto someone or something else as a form of delusion and denial.

    2) A way to blame others for your own negative thoughts by repressing them and then attributing them to someone else. Due to the sorrowful nature of delusion and denial it is very difficult for the target to be able to clarify the reality of the situation.

    3) A way to transfer guilt for your own thoughts, emotions and actions onto another as a way of not admitting your guilt to yourself.
    Psychology Of Hatred Part II: Projection & Projective Identification
    let's look at "projection," and we are all familiar with this.
    1) The angry person accuses someone else being angry
    2) A liar accuses others of lying
    3) The cheater accuses others of cheating
    4) The thief accuses others of stealing (Notice how the thief is not accusing others of lying? No he's obsessed with only his own sins.)

    Projection is not just a Freudian defense mechanism, it a powerful tool for justifying aggression. The junkie, the borderline personality, and other people that have regressed to a primitive and chaotic level level will project accusations like a firehose, and the increasingly wild nature of the accusations will reflect the decay of their mental condition. The cognitive dissonance in the head is reflected by the increasingly contradictory and mutually exclusive accusations they hurl.


    In politics, Hitler accused the Jews of being genocidal maniacs who were going to enslave everyone else. After projecting all their own defects of character on the Jews, the Nazis freed themselves to be sadists against them, shielded by rage and obviously false claims of self defense, and the group mentality. The Nazis claimed they were the real "victims." Again note the "tell" that they were accusing their victims of exactly what they were doing.


    Projection is also used by abusers using the DARVO strategy to mask outright sadism.
    How far gone is Gayle Harden? I strongly suggest she ask the homeowner (her cancer stricken mother) to put the house on the market and keep those dogs silent from 10 p.m. - 7 a.m. until they can vacate the premises.
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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    We have no conflicts w/ ANY neighbors but you. I've been told by several that your responses, banging, screamed filth are what bothers them. Not the dogs. You were NOT the one trespassing and attacking our window. That was !&%*%(^. She has trespassed and issued threats. Both the police take pretty seriously. Our dogs go out to use the bathroom only during the night. You don't force us to take them in. We take them in once their business is done, period. Due to the repeated and constant aggravation their heads immediately swivel directly to your house when let out- ready for the trouble you guys cause. Our dogs are not vicious in anyway. The Animal Services and SPCA (whom you've both called) can attest to that because they've met them and were almost licked to death by them. My sleeping patterns are none of your business, but when I have a dog whine to go out to pee I get up and take them no matter what time it is. Today, after reviewing all our reports and complaints we've filed, the police told me not to wait and file reports against you until the next day (like I have been doing) but to call 911 immediately from now on. Since you're the only neighbor w/ a problem you can move.......

    According to Garland police and Animal Services I am legally allowed to let my dogs out during the hours of 10pm-7am in order to go to the bathroom. Trust me, I've checked w/ both. If you want them to bark less don't aggravate them. We have a ton of respect for all our neighbors, except the crazy problem causing ones.
    Open Records Request Harden Docs.pdf

    Gayle has NOT filed any police reports of any kind in the last 3 months. She should definitely call 911 to report that her dogs are waking up the neighbors and that said neighbors are rightfully demanding she abide by the law and keep them in so we can all sleep. And, again, I was the one out in front demanding that they take their dogs in and I was not using bad language, so where is her video? She has claimed online that she has cameras. We have hours and hours of video that prove the Hardens' dogs are dumped out between 10 and 7 and that they are keeping up and waking up neighbors. The law only requires that the repose of one person be disrupted. The Hardens will not get away with tormenting and harassing neighbors.

    When Animal Control had to come out 4 times this year because the dogs broke out of the rickety, old garbage heap of a fence, the dogs menaced us and Animal Control officers on our property and some of the dogs were noted to be aggressive. The neighbors are afraid of those dogs with good reason. The dogs almost cleared the fence several times in an obvious effort to get out and attack an elderly neighbor and a yard maintenance professional and all of that is on video! So, the neighbors do not want those dogs barking or loose. The neighbors are not supporting the aberrant behavior. The fact that they are not hearing it does not mean that they support the dogs being out for no reason. She put words into the mouths of detectives (that are figments of her imagination) and is doing the same with the neighbors.

    Gayle is so uneducated and stupid that she apparently isn't aware that all of those reports that she claims that she has made are public record. Constantly bragging of reports she has filed (that in reality don't exist) is making her look like a "very dangerous, mentally unstable person and batshit crazy" as she claims I am. And, dumping her dogs out at all hours of the night and at 5:40 a.m. as those creeps did this morning just advertises what kind of people they really are. If their dogs are disrupting the sleep of even a single person then they need to abide by the law and keep them quiet during the time the law states is a time of repose. No one is asking for special treatment. We are demanding that these neighbors respect the law and common courtesy. And, we are documenting everything!

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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX




    The dogs were dumped out the door at 10 p.m. I had to go out in front near their bedroom window and demand the dogs be taken in at 10:36 p.m. so my chronically ill kids could get some rest. I document everything!

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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    The dogs are out all hours of the night and at the crack of dawn. I was startled awake by the loud barking at 6:10 a.m.




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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX





    Gayle Harden came in at 2:43 a.m. and nearly creamed the van owned by an installer for DirecTv. Why do they let Brigham Harden and his wife (who I personally witnessed bashing a car parked in that driveway twice while attempting to back out in broad daylight) have that van parked in their driveway? Brigham Harden has also come in between midnight and 3 a.m. and disturbed the neighbors and then proceeded to let out his loudly barking, crazy dogs to wake all the neighbors up. What is a DirecTv van doing out at all hours of the night?

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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX



    Gayle and Brigham Harden's dog jumps fence as terrified children scream and run.

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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX



    Gayle Harden, the neighbor from hell (who doesn't work,) took her poor little 4 year old granddaughter out shopping at Walmart and pulled in with the child screaming and dogs barking at 10:58 p.m. That poor little child should have been in bed between 8:30 and 9:00 p.m. What kind of irresponsible grandparent would risk taking a little one like that out at such a late hour? And, how much more chaos do the neighbors, who have to be up at 5 to go to work, going to have to endure???

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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    Typical day with the neighbors from hell of dogs barking at all hours and jumping the fence to menace terrified children:


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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    The lunatics let their dogs out at 3:02 a.m. and the horrific howling and barking woke up the neighborhood.


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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    Why is it that the police or animal control hasn't fixed this problem?
    It seems like in this "industry" common sense is not all that common!

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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    weather.com fpr Garland, TX says:
    as of 2:59 am CST


    48°
    Cloudy
    feels like 45°
    H - L 46° UV Index 0 of 10


    We're Watching 2 Snow Systems This Week
    Trailer trash neighbors have had their poor innocent dogs out barking and howling from 1:20 a.m. until 3:09 a.m. keeping the neighborhood up. What cruel, sick people would have their dogs out in this cold with the ground saturated from heavy rains?

    They think tormenting their neighbors has no consequences. Good luck with that! Lots of video coming!

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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    The charming neighbors, Gayle and Brigham Harden, have destroyed their freebie and left it totally uninhabitable. It is now nothing more than a bricked in garbage dump and toilet in one. John Francis Phillips, great grandpa and the enabler from purgatory, paid cash for another home for the foolish freeloaders. Who says grandparents in their late forties shouldn't be moochers for life???

    Just sold on January 5, 2017








    2015 Sandi Ln Sachse, TX 75048





    • 3 beds
    • 2 baths
    • 2,348 sq ft
    I will be sure to give their new neighbors a heads up!

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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    so they moved out of your neighborhood?
    Haven't lost any money to online scams.......results are typical.

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    re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    Quote Originally Posted by Whip View Post
    so they moved out of your neighborhood?
    YES!!!

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    Re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX

    We take that as a YES!!!
    It seems like in this "industry" common sense is not all that common!

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    Re: Neighbors from Hell!!!! Brigham Harden, Gayle Phillips-Harden, 2015 Sandi Sachse / 2514 Suncrest Garland, TX



    How did the freeloaders talk great grandpa into another free house, yet not get those deep pockets(great grandma's claim) to pay for professional movers??? They destroyed the first free house imagine how the property values will plummet in their new neighborhood! I chatted with one of their new neighbors and they will be keeping a close eye on this bunch.

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